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Natural MedicineIndigo/Crystal Kids
« Previous 1 2 Next » » QueenMab - Any Indigo Children out there? In response to Any Indigo Children out there? posted by Elixis:
Peace, QM -- posted by QueenMab
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When I coached gymnastics I found they most enjoyed floor work and expressing themselves to music. Trance dance or free-movement to some of the Impressionists can be very freeing for some who find "normal" ways of communication intimidating. (on the other hand - some music can be too....overwhelming is perhaps the word, for sensitive children). Great conversation - I'm interested in what others have share as well. Angela
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It's a pleasure to hear from you here as well! You said in your first comment: "I feel less need to talk about who I am and justify it to anyone anymore. Am happier just to be. It seems being Indigo is about so much struggle; it's as if you have to really fight to be who you are." I have started to feel the same way. I think it's partly the number of indigos and the increase in awareness - and partly each of us finding who we are and simply living it, instead of trying to fit into someone else's mold and be visible or be a role model - the indigos have to LIVE as who we ARE. Blessings and best wishes,
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So many indigo and crystal kids can get trapped in the higher "spiritual" vibration of the third eye and crown chakras - especially given the problems they have with the ubiquitous processed foods that make up the normal diet of many families. Exercise and activity can help ground sensitive kids and bring them "back to earth." The physical body and physical senses are so vital for what we are learning on the Earth - it's impossible to ignore them and be sane and healthy, but it's what I've seen a lot of child and adult indigos try to do. I have the feeling I may have gone off on a tangent. Once you get me started about indigo kids, it's something I tend to do Hope you're well. » mandygurl - Any Indigo Children out there? In response to Any Indigo Children out there? posted by OilsDragon:
I have two sons. Chay is 6 and Kody is 4. Chay is warm, loving, sensitive, kind, sincere, emotional, shy, and an all around good kid aiming to please. Kody, on the other hand, is the complete opposite! He was a hard birth. He almost died, he wasn't breathing for the first 2 minutes after he was born. I have many times wondered if that has attributed to some of his behavior issues. At the age of 2.5 he wasn't saying many words so we took him to a speech pathologist. I just assumed his pacifier was the cause of the speech delay. He did have his tonsils and adenoids out and tubes put in his ears and that has helped his speech. He makes me SO mad though sometimes. Actually, a LOT of the time! I have wondered if he has ADD or ADHD. He has just started school and my main concern is that if there IS something "wrong" with him, that his teacher isn't sensitive to his needs. Every day he comes home and tells me, "The teacher was mad at me today." No punishment that I have ever tried has worked. He just doesn't care. He doesn't care if he destroys things. Brand new things that I buy him, he destroys them and I know he'd do it again if he had the chance! I have been looking for an answer from someone as to why he acts this way and so far have come up with nothing. I have been questioning my parenting skills but my first son is nothing like this. He hasn't shown any signs of reading minds. So how do I know if he is an indigo or crystal child and not just having behavior issues? Also, my husband was diagnosed with ADD as a child. He was medicated but no longer takes medication. He is native and has had a spiritual cleansing done. He was told that he has healing powers. Some qualities of the Indigo remind me of him. This is just all so new to me. I am wondering if my husband and children are Indigo and/or crystal. And what about me? I can't seem to relate to any of this so why would Indigos and Crystals be with me? Thanks! -- posted by mandygurl
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Hi Mandy, Wow! It certainly sounds like you have a lot on your plate. You can be sure that if your sons are indigo or crystal kids - or even if they are other colours - they are very special children who have been sent to you for a reason. They are here to teach you as well as you to teach them, and you are the best person for that purpose. The most important thing with the indigos and crystal is to love them as unconditionally as you can - even when they make you angry - and to be genuine with them. If you are upset, they can tell, and you have to acknowledge it so they know they can trust you to say what you mean. It sounds like your husband may well be an indigo, so you already have some of the "training" to be attuned to these people! If your sons are both indigo/crystal, you are likely have either an indigo aura yourself or a violet aura - the violets are often parents to indigo kids (my mother is a violet, and both her kids are indigo). A speech pathologist or behavioural psychologist is not necessarily going to have the experience with indigo kids to be able to help your son. I'd recommend that you find a therapist or natural practitioner who focuses on children, AD/HD, or indigo kids - someone like this will be more likely to be helpful to a special soul like your son than a conventional therapist would be. Where are you located? I might know someone in your area. Does your husband have any contacts in the Native community who follow traditional healing practices? I have an intuition that this kind of spiritual/energy work might also be VERY helpful. In fact, the spiritual guidance of that half of his heritage might help ground your son and bring him into a more positive place. Please let me know if there's anything else I can do to help. Blessings,
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It's amazing how different two kids can be isn't it? My daughter (our second) often surprises me with her "determination" even at 17 months old - and with how unlike her brother she is. She is a child who I can call into the living room and she will come all the way to the threshold of the kitchen and stand and laugh at me and never cross. I used to get angry and think I needed to spank her or MAKE her come. I felt so frustrated....just like you describe. But I found when I stop and remember why I love her so much, and laugh with her and hold my arms out for a hug she will usually laugh back with me and come running to get a hug and kiss. My mother once told me that tying heart strings with your children is the most important thing a parent can do becuase they will help anchor a child during life's storms. I try to remember that when my daughter is in a "determined" mood and I picture her someday standing up for Truth and Right with that same courage and determination and smile and appreciate what makes her special. It took me awhile to get there and I had a lot of encouragement from my family. I hope you can get to that place of understanding with your son as well. Please keep us posted when you are able to find someone to help you! I want to hear more about your journey! Blessings, » davecote - Any Indigo Children out there? In response to Any Indigo Children out there? posted by Elixis:
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The first thing I want to say is to caution you to take care of yourself. When you mention feeling a tightness in your chest - I just want to make sure that you're aware of your own well-being. Light healers and those who channel energy, especially those for whom these sensations are new, are often prone to overreaching themself in the effort to help other people. I think it's important for us to realize that we can only truly help other people by staying grounded and making sure to take care of ourselves, first and foremost, so that the energy we channel remains clear and good. I have had friends go on antidepressants and derive some short-term benefit from them. I think the mistake, however, is that some people perceive them as a solution instead of the (highly volatile) "bandaid" that they are. Antidepressants can help take the edge off so that a person can handle their life a bit easier while going through therapy or whatever direction they choose - but antidepressants alone do not heal anyone, and depression can take a heck of a lot of time and committment to free oneself from. I understand that you want to help your friend, but sometimes the best thing you can do is just be a friend to them and enable them to grow as they need to. My friend who was on antidepressants chose not to do anything else - and remains stuck. Some people will choose that - and although I did everything I could for her with energy work and more, it was and is her choice. We can only help people as much as they want to be helped. I think your energy and your skills will be invaluable to your friend - but you need to respect that depression takes work to resolve and it's work that she has to do. You can help her with your presence and your friendship - but you also need to take care of you. If you'd like to tell me more about the kind of energy work you do or what you feel when you're around your friend, I'd be happy to guide you if I can - you haven't given me a lot to go on, so if my advice so far has seeemd off the mark I apologize. Ultimately, it's your intuition and your inner voice that you need to learn to listen to and recognize. Best wishes, » Clair555 - Indigo Children...a little recognition and support I am an Indigo as well...I know the emotional pain that I have suffered is great...but I would not change it for the WORLD! I have been through hell it seems I am conditioning myself learning first hand since I seem to learn no other way! I use the knowlege I have gained from all my lifes adventures to help others cope and heal from their adventures. I have noticed that just before someone needs me to help them with a situation in their life I will live that situation in my life. I am not sure if people with similar situations are drawn to me due to the mirroring affect, or if the experience is drawn to me in prepration of their arrival...that is yet to be determind! I do know though that all my hardships were necessary to get where I am, I had to know the down to apprieciate the up. The hardest times are when we grow, it is when we are picking ourselves up that true strength is gained. I have been through it all people it is not minor issues either! At 1 my sister died, then 2 my mother died, then my grandparents at 6-7, then my grandparents that helped raise me after my mothers death at 22 & 24, abusive realtionships, drugs, rape, sexual molestation for 8 consecutive years, abusive friendships, becoming a teenage mother (though this is my strength it was a great challenge), so as you can see I am coming from a place where I have no experience...I have lived! I am 28, I am a psychic intuitive here to spread light...on my good days I know myself...I know my life purpose...I spread love...on my bad days....my angels giving loving support, and send helping hands to heal my pain till I find my strentgh again. I say to you all stand up be yourself know that you are loved and divinly guided to your highest good. Respect yourself, love yourself, and know that you are you by the result of perfect planning and calculations...God is perfect right...then how could he have made a mistake and not done everything right in planning YOU? There was no error you just have to see you through my eyes. Light N Love, Clair555 -- posted by Clair555 « Previous 1 2 Next » Please follow the guidelines set forth in the Suite101 Posting Etiquette when adding to the discussion. |
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Angela England
